Sunday, December 13, 2009

Congratulations Message For Marriage Will You Be Mad If Best Friends Do Not Attend Your Wedding?

Will you be mad if best friends do not attend your wedding? - congratulations message for marriage

Well, not really my friends. It is a couple who were the friends of my husband in the last 8 years.

Two months before our wedding, we have sent the invitation and confirmed that they would be. The wedding day not yet appeared. She arrived at the ceremony in the morning and do not fear. Later that day my husband found that he had sent a message to your phone in France and can now say, no it does not give any reason (us know the details are).

The first reaction in my head was «****' bull, but my husband decided that if anything at all to believe. A month after our wedding, which received no calls or emails from them. Although my husband to tell him again msn, and she was there, nose to hello. No congratulations or elevators at the wedding, as if our marriage never happened.

Yesterday my husband got him a call after such a long time. He did not mention the marriage, only to ask whether marriage is good so far, and asked if she could use mHome and in Singapore for a holiday.
My feeling was like "What are these people?" How did they even ask me to face?
My answer was, of course, NO. But now my husband thinks I'm over-reaction, and I hope that I could do this little service.
I told him I would not do that, and I no longer see. He thinks that I do not respect your friends !!!!!!

What is the correct way to my husband saying that his friends just suck?

13 comments:

Kimberly H said...

Do not listen sunbun! These people are clearly users. You can not be there for you when they should be, but they want to benefit? Ha You're only good for them if they have something to desire what is a user. Not in the Tell your husband it's good to be friends with them, if necessary, to give, but not for themselves and their one-sided friendship, care and prefer their time with people who are not for you to invest, to take not only are required.

Do not feel like you're being unfair. If you or your spouse cared for, at least been in contact when they would not ask for favors "small".

KJ said...

funny you mentioned "the France.
My best friend lives in France, and our marriage was very short ... (with less than a week).

traveled from France to Chicago with his GF for our wedding. said he would not have missed it for anything.

Friends of her husband is really zero.

or a friend of her husband to suck and her husband would be difficult.

KJ said...

funny you mentioned "the France.
My best friend lives in France, and our marriage was very short ... (with less than a week).

traveled from France to Chicago with his GF for our wedding. said he would not have missed it for anything.

Friends of her husband is really zero.

or a friend of her husband to suck and her husband would be difficult.

sunbun said...

Sorry ... but you are exaggerating.

For some reason (and it can) staff who are outside the country and not attentive.

Forget ... Go ahead .... Do not let the lives of little things that you burn ... Life is too short. Move on

benjamin m said...

You said yourself not sure why they did not. It could have been a number of things. You're exaggerating a bit, and a snob about the whole affair.

Ms. Diva said...

Where there is no reason to be there, then I apologize.

Ms. Diva said...

Where there is no reason to be there, then I apologize.

topside said...

Post in this section of friends and family.

topside said...

Post in this section of friends and family.

Sweet_Di said...

my best friend offered to standup for me when I got married last year, 4 days before my wedding, I said he could not dismount and stanup for me. He offered to give $ 100 for gas and she knew it. Yes, I'm excited. I think it has more reaction. Friends do not speak of my husband with me. I ignored it at our wedding. just explode. was his loss, not yours

Sweet_Di said...

my best friend offered to standup for me when I got married last year, 4 days before my wedding, I said he could not dismount and stanup for me. He offered to give $ 100 for gas and she knew it. Yes, I'm excited. I think it has more reaction. Friends do not speak of my husband with me. I ignored it at our wedding. just explode. was his loss, not yours

Sue M said...

wow I'm on your side, because people have no real friends. You have no right to his parents' house without asking you and your husband is there. I'ts a tax on their parents. They sound like they enjoy the search facilities for your pleasure and are certainly not interested in a common friendship with you and your husband or a better response to their marriage like. I slid his friendship to one side. I hope that this is not a big problem with their marriage.
Luck and many happy years together, have
Grandma Sue

2Westies said...

This is no small thing, a big thanks. It takes courage to jump out of their marriage, does not recognize, do not try a card or gift card and then call on the facts and to find a free place to vacation. These are not our friends are our users. Po I would, if the wife, my son left his friends at our summer home, without that we are using, this is not correct. They respect their parents if they say yes to anyone.

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